Dominatrix Mommy BloggerMona Darling

Boy Legos vs Girl Legos

I keep finding myself in the midst of a heated Lego fueled debate on Facebook about my ill will towards the Lego Friends sets. What’s wrong with the Lego Friends sets? Why pick on Lego when Mattel and Hasbro are doing the same thing?, etc, etc, etc. Why Lego? Because we asked for more women in…

Viva Your Revolution!

The Internet Women Are Building.

The internet is changing the way women interact with the world. It’s opening up all kinds of new opportunities for us, both the terms of business, and in personal growth. Two things struck me the first time I went to a blogging conference. First, the amazing sense of community. There are always people judging people…


Putting the PAUSE in Perimenopause

Alright Ladies. Give it to me straight. I’m 45, and my formerly, like clockwork down to the hour monthly visitor, forgetting that she has already been here, has been stopping by again for a little crazy time redux. She’s also been forgetting in which order to torment me, so just sends random PMS symptoms as fun, unexpected times…

Darling Propaganda Variety Hour

The Darling Propaganda Variety Hour

Wednesday at 8:30pm PST I will host my inaugural Darling Propaganda Variety Hour.  While this time it will just be me talking to myself and who ever shows up, in the future I will be talking to porn stars, sex educators, sex toy designers, sex working moms, and women like you who have something they…

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My name is Mona Darling. I am a professional dominatrix and women’s sexual wellness coach. I write about sex positive, gender neutral parenting, sexual health, women’s empowerment and destroying the myth of the good girl- with a dash of humor. I strongly believe in fitness at any size and loving your body even if it doesn’t always look like what you want it to.  I love puns, all things retro and tiki, a good cocktail and hanging out with friends in my kitchen. And obviously chickens. My turn offs include bigots, racists and mansplainers.

Most importantly, I am starting a revolution. Join me!

Viva Your Revolution!

I am a Good Vibrations Ambassador and always here to answer your sexual health and sex toys questions!

I am a woman's sexual wellness coach.
I help women build the life they deserve
by learning to ask for what they want without shame
and love who they are without reserve.