Dominatrix Mommy BloggerMona Darling

What is is with “polite society’s” obsession with genitals?

I have a fairly thick skin. I’ve never done things the easy way. I often feel like I’ve been swimming up stream my entire life. I didn’t do school the way I was supposed to. I didn’t do marriage the way I was expected to. I didn’t have babies when I was supposed to. Two…


Voice Of The Year! In a good way!

So. I won… an award? Like. A real award. Not a made up one to try to sell me something. The kind that comes with a champagne reception! I’ve given them a 48 hour cooling off period, but still. My name is up there as an honoree. Every year at BlogHer, I watch with a colorful mixture of…


The one where I accicidently filled my shoes with my own pee

I met a long time client at a hotel. I’m going to dress him in panties, a vibrating butt-plug and a cock ring before heading out to Victoria’s Secret to pick out some new panties for him. When we get back, we are going to do some strap-on play and give him a golden shower. I try…

I Will Be A Mom

Giveaways and Such

During my struggles to have a baby after Scout, the infertility community supported me whole heartedly despite the fact that I have three older kids from when I was a fertile lost teen, and had already won the IVF baby lottery on my first IVF and didn’t really feel like I was a true infertile….

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My name is Mona Darling. I am a professional dominatrix and women’s sexual wellness coach. I write about sex positive, gender neutral parenting, sexual health, women’s empowerment and destroying the myth of the good girl- with a dash of humor. I strongly believe in fitness at any size and loving your body even if it doesn’t always look like what you want it to.  I love puns, all things retro and tiki, a good cocktail and hanging out with friends in my kitchen. And obviously chickens. My turn offs include bigots, racists and mansplainers.

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Ask for what you want without shame.
Love who you are without reserve.