Dominatrix Mommy BloggerMona Darling

StitchFix and ModCloth Update

Welp. I’m getting closer. No thanks to ModCloth. I ordered their stylish surprise and this is what I received. As you can see, I’m red in the face from trying not to laugh while my friend snapped a picture. Also, as you can see, housekeeping is not my forte but I do own an amazing…

Boom. Hat.

Dear Fashion Sense, Where Forth Art Thou?

Somewhere between turning 40, having a baby, doubling my birth weight (Ooh… it’s the BABY that’s supposed to do that? My bad) and going through 472 infertility treatments resulting in two loses and two broken hearts, I seem to have lost my sense of style. When I was younger, I was, as my mom called…

Fer Fucks Sake

National No School Day

My day so far has consisted of scooping up a dead bird who mistook my freshly cleaned window for a short cut and cleaning two day old raw sewage out of my shower. But I am, by far, having a better day then so many families in Sandy Hook who are marking three years since…

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My name is Mona Darling. I am a professional dominatrix and women’s sexual wellness coach. I write about sex positive, gender neutral parenting, sexual health, women’s empowerment and destroying the myth of the good girl- with a dash of humor. I strongly believe in fitness at any size and loving your body even if it doesn’t always look like what you want it to.  I love puns, all things retro and tiki, a good cocktail and hanging out with friends in my kitchen. My turn offs include bigots, racists and mansplainers.

Ask for what you want without shame.
Love who you are without reserve.