Dominatrix Mommy BloggerMona Darling
These are a few of my stomach's favorite things!

The Five Things That Help My Stomach

I realized that my last post was kind of all bitching about the problem and no talking about solutions, so here are the five things that REALLY help my stomach. 1. Yoga With Adrienne. I found her on YouTube and obsessed over her for a bit. Her motto, Find What Feels Good really clicked with…

Waterolor beautiful girl. Vector illustration of woman beauty salon

My Life Long Arch Nemesis

I’ve had an arch nemesis as long as I can remember. She has been there for every major life event, from my first day of first grade through today, poised to ruin any exciting opportunity that comes my way. I know about her and her wily ways, so often times, I’m prepared. Other times I’m…


StitchFix and ModCloth Update

Welp. I’m getting closer. No thanks to ModCloth. I ordered their stylish surprise and this is what I received. As you can see, I’m red in the face from trying not to laugh while my friend snapped a picture. Also, as you can see, housekeeping is not my forte but I do own an amazing…

Boom. Hat.

Dear Fashion Sense, Where Forth Art Thou?

Somewhere between turning 40, having a baby, doubling my birth weight (Ooh… it’s the BABY that’s supposed to do that? My bad) and going through 472 infertility treatments resulting in two loses and two broken hearts, I seem to have lost my sense of style. When I was younger, I was, as my mom called…

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My name is Mona Darling. I am a professional dominatrix and women’s sexual wellness coach. I write about sex positive, gender neutral parenting, sexual health, women’s empowerment and destroying the myth of the good girl- with a dash of humor. I strongly believe in fitness at any size and loving your body even if it doesn’t always look like what you want it to.  I love puns, all things retro and tiki, a good cocktail and hanging out with friends in my kitchen. My turn offs include bigots, racists and mansplainers.

Ask for what you want without shame.
Love who you are without reserve.