The Other Women: The Cheater.

Mona Darling


This is a guest post from Daniella about her habit of cheating on her husband.  If you would like to be part of my The Other Women series and write about your sexual identity, contact me! Your story can be silly, sexy or sad. There is no normal and all points of view are invited to join.

Hi my name is Daniella and I’m a cheater. Sounds like an AA meeting doesnt it? Maybe there should be a cheaters anonymous although they might all end up sleeping together.

I didnt plan on  cheating on my husband it just happened. Funny how you hear that alot.

I love my husband to pieces, he is the best thing that has ever happened to me.  There is just a part of me that needs more.

I have a very high sex drive. Ridiculously high and he just cant keep up with me so i look elsewhere for my satisfaction.

The first time was with one of hubbys friends. OK best friend. And it was good. Just feeling another man inside me was enough to make me cum and cum hard. I actually had a short affair with him and it was the best few months of sex i have ever had.

That ended when his girlfriend found a txt from me and accused me of being a nutter and trying to split them up. I laughed so hard at her stupidity. I didnt like her much.

For a cheater i have only cheated with 2 men so far.

The second was with a man i met on a night out. He found it fascinating that i was married. It was a huge turn on for him. We had sex in a church garden after getting very very drunk. That started with him slipping his fingers inside me. Not many men know to play with a womens clit but he did. And it was good. I re-payed that by giving him a long and good blow job and man oh man did he enjoy that. The sex wasnt too good though as we were both drunk it was more of a fumble around. All in all though it was good though.

He certainly enjoyed himself.

I didnt hear from him after that and i was ok with it.

And thats it so far. But I know I will cheat again.

I just hope hubby doesnt ever find out.

That would be a shit storm

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While I am a Jill of all trades, and Mistress of none, I am passionate about women empowerment and growth. My interests span food, crafts and kink, but writing has always been my first love. I live in Portland Oregon with my husband, my impossibly cute dog, and my daughter who is on her own girlie journey, despite being assigned male at birth. I was a teen mother. Then, to even things out, I was pregnant again when I was 40. I have been a professional dominatrix for most of my adult life. I hold an official world record for the most people to have breakfast in bed together with 600 of my dearest friends. I am the Dominatrix Mommy Blogger.


  1. quirkyjessi
    July 13, 2013 at 7:49 am

    DeadCowGirl In case you hadn’t seen this, it looks like it might be up your alley:

    • DeadCowGirl
      July 13, 2013 at 9:02 am

      quirkyjessi that is… Weird. Who doesn’t know not to shove things without … Uhg. Really?

  2. anonymous
    August 21, 2012 at 5:12 pm

    I could’ve written this…except mine has been with one other person and wow, it has been great. 

  3. Lucas
    March 21, 2012 at 2:04 am

    A friend of mine who is an expert cheater said that it is fun to cheat. However, it is really painful when you are the one being cheated.

  4. Jesslie
    March 19, 2012 at 4:24 pm

    Well sometimes cheating can be exciting to other men or women but to the person who you cheated, it doesn’t sound nice at all…

  5. Confessions from the Hairdresser
    March 18, 2012 at 1:27 pm

    I adore you so much already!

    I just stumbled upon via Twitter (of all places). I just signed up today and have no idea how to use the stupid fucking thing but somehow you popped up in my little list of twits or tweets or whatever they little things are.

    But I’m enamored with your blog so much already and I am very very much looking forward to reading your archives!

  6. (@DeadCowGirl) (@DeadCowGirl)
    March 18, 2012 at 10:10 am

    I have a guest post up for The Other Women series. She’s a cheater.