Mona Darling ~ The Dominatrix Mommy Blogger
Help Me Create A Large Healthy Sex Positive Community
I want to create a sex positive community. Someplace where people can come and talk about all kinds of things, understanding that everyone involved in the community is ok with the fact that sometimes there will be talk of sex.
I plan on creating a community with a public area to talk about life; food, travel, parenting etc, and a private area to talk about sexual abuse, fetishes, masturbation, curiosities, erotica; all manor of sexual adventures. I also want to discuss sensitive, but important topics like sex positive, gender neutral and queer parenting.
By compartmentalizing sex we add to the shame of having sexual desires, a sexual past or having been sexually abused. We all have sex. Most of us even like having it. We all have secret interests and social shames. We all feel like we are the only one who… fill in the blank. In order to blur the lines between sex blogger and non-sex blogger and bring sex out from behind the back counter, I’m looking for sex positive bloggers who blog about other things, food, parenting, health, travel, crafting, to help me build this community.
If you are interested in helping create this community, I will give you your own little section of the forum to moderate and promote your blog and your ideas. Your “lounge” can be public or private (private being available only to those who are registered and logged in, public being open and searchable via google etc.) I am also considering an even more private option that will require all members be registered, logged in AND have approved membership.
This will be a women centric space, but we will welcome men. There is going to be a Boys Room/Man Cave which will be a place for them to talk about their own sexuality, as well ask about the sexual care and maintenance of their ladies and gentlemen.
This space will NOT be a dating space, although there will be, if you, the community, decide one should be included.
People of all sexual and gender orientations will be welcome and embraced. Kinky and vanilla as well as all relationship statuses will also be embraced; monogamous, poly, open relationship, single and on the prowl. It doesn’t matter. We will all be there to learn and share and RESPECT each other.
Trolls will not be tolerated and I am working on a way to let the community self moderate with a point system of some sort. Any help or suggestions there would be appreciated.
I also plan on hosting a place where sex toy companies can post their latest sales, coupon codes and give aways. Other ideas for group resources are more then welcome.
This will be YOUR community where YOU can promote yourself, your projects and your blog as well as help create a world in which those of us who are more open about sex feel less marginalized and more empowered.