I teach women and couples to discover, embrace and communicate their kinks.
For twenty years, as a professional dominatrix, I helped men learn about themselves and explore their fantasies.
Why should men have all the fun?
Your mission, should you choose to accept, is to
I don’t post as often as I used to, but this is a good place to look around for sex tips, ideas or resources for your own journey. This is also a good place to learn about me and my approach to kink, and life in general.
I have have worked as a professional dominatrix for over two decades and always loved working with nervous newbies. I excel at putting people at ease and creating a safe space so they can open up and talk about the fantasies they’ve always kept to themselves. I offer one on one mentoring (video, audio or live and in person in my kink education space – Sub Rosa) so we can connect from anywhere in the world even if you aren’t in Portland Oregon. I work with women, just like you, who are curious about kink, and don’t know where to begin. And yes, I work with couples, but always prefer to work one-on-one with the women first so I can fully understand their desires before adding male energy to the mix. And yes. I occasionally work with sincere men.
This is where the action is! It is a private group – as in people can see that you are a member, but have no idea what we are talking about. I try to make the outside as generic as possible, so the women (trans women are women) inside can feel comfortable talking about all aspect of women’s sexuality, from learning about new technique, or how to talk your partner into trying something new, or how to process changes that happen to your body as you age. We operate under the idea that ALL of our life experiences contribute to our sexual needs and desires – and that there is no right, there is only what’s right for you.