I was a globe trotting dominatrix for over two decades and always loved working with nervous newbies. I excel at putting people at ease so they can open up and talk about the fantasies they’ve always kept to themselves. If Fifty Shades of Grey stirred something in you, let me help you understand and enjoy it!

I offer one on one mentoring (video or audio) so we can connect from anywhere in the world.  I work with women, just like you, who are curious about kink, and don’t know where to begin.

Kinky Sex Tips For Curious Girls is a series of on-line classes intended to help women understand themselves and their interests as they take a journey of kinky self discovery with other like-minded women over 6-12 weeks. The next round of classes will start in Fall 17 when I finish the accompanying text book!

Apply for membership to my on-line women only community if you would like to learn more, as well as mingle with curious kinky women like yourself! Joining the community is free.

Next year I will be hosting a retreat in Portland Oregon for women
interested in yoga, hiking, bourbon, strip clubs and other, less than lady-like adventures.

Subscribe to my mailing list if you are interesting in joining us!

Jess R. Goddess
Tara R. Adventuress
Marie L Curious Adventuress
Jana Curious Adventuress

Affirming and Validating

I grew up in a pretty sex negative environment. It took me until my 30s to finally be ready to ditch the shame and learn to embrace my sexual identity, my desires, fantasies, and erotic energy. Mona creates a safe place for those really difficult changes to happen. Seeing other women who are comfortable with their own sexuality is so affirming and validating. She is able to draw me out in a way that most others aren't because she is so comfortable and educated in this space. She's the real deal.

Safe and Empowering

I signed up for Mona's Dominant Goddess class hoping a little bit on a whim, but hoping to be able to explore the fantasies I wasn't able to express. I came out of a long marriage sexually unfulfilled AND feeling sexually rejected. The years that followed took a lot of healing. Since then I have a new partner I started to explore my more sensual side with and Mona's class really gave me some tools I needed to explore and express fantasies in a way that felt both safe and empowering. She helped me find a way that felt good to me to not only explore but talk about things with my partner. I am so grateful and excited for this next chapter in my life - in my mind, body and spirit!

Not A Fluffer

You know those days when you just need someone to tell you how it really is? One thing you can always trust about Mona is she’ll give it to you straight. In a world full of bullshit artists and fluffers, Mona is the real deal.

A Permission-Granting Adventure of Self-Discovery

Mona speaks openly and honestly about the things women are told to hide about themselves. She encourages women to stand in a role of dominance in their lives and go after their deepest desires. Being around Mona is a permission-granting adventure of self-discovery and fun.

Opened Up All Sorts Of Kinky Conversations

I loved the class I took with Mona. I learned a lot about myself and about being in a dominant role and about power dynamics in a long-term relationship. It's opened up all sorts of kinky conversations and explorations with my spouse of many years!

Help Finding The Real You

I've had coaching sessions with Mona and really enjoyed the advice and knowledge she passed along. We talked about everything from boyfriends and sex to work and family. Recently, I took the Dominant Goddess class, and while I'm clearly not dominant, I really got a lot of confidence out of the class. It showed me that things I want to ask for or things I think I need, it's ok to voice. Her newsletter and website have tons of tidbits that can be incorporated into your daily (or even better, nightly) life. I highly recommend her coaching sessions and any of her classes, especially if you're in a period of your life where you're looking to find yourself and become the real YOU.

Compassionate and Kinky

Mona is as compassionate and knowledgeable as she is kinky, which says a lot! I adore the safe spaces she creates for women.

Innate Way Of Making You Feel Comfortable

Mona has an innate way of making you feel comfortable, no matter what you bring up. Judging yourself like whoa? Mona will help you feel comfortable accepting your desires and communicating them with a partner. Need some practical skills? She has tools, tips, & techniques for every desire, level of experience, and lifestyle. Not sure you really want to try something out? She'll help you sort through the shame + step outside your comfort zone so you can finally have mind-blowing sex and life you've always craved.

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