BDSM and Kink Mentor

I love being a kinky mentor! No question surprises me and no interest or experience shocks me. Fascinated with bondage? Feel a burning need to be spanked? Or to spank? Wish you could be more demanding in bed? Fantasize about being used like the dirty little whore you are? Or are your interests, a little more complicated? A little more deviant?

Or perhaps you see yourself as more vanilla and wish you could understand and enjoy your partners kink?

I love working with people to facilitate healthy, respectful conversations about kinky sex. Kinky sexual desires can bring two (or more!) people together in fun and exciting ways and exploring those desires can lead to a deeper understanding of your partner in the bedroom, as well as in everyday life. Learning to communicate openly can help prevent misunderstandings or miscommunications that can not only ruin the fun, they can destroy trust.

If you’ve ever wished you could act out those fantasies you have in your Special Lady Time, let me be your guide!

How do mentoring/coaching sessions work? I do sessions in my private dungeon in Portland Oregon. It’s a beautiful, well equipped space to learn about all aspects of kink and BDSM. We also host small events and classes there.

How long will it take me to figure out how to please my partner or figure out my fetish? Somewhere between one visit and the rest of your life. Each situation is individual, but in kink, part of the fun is the discovery.

Do you ever work with couples? Men? Or just women? I am open to work with anyone who is respectfully searching for adventure although my primary focus is women, and occasionally couples.

Do you ever offer business mentoring to sex workers? Yes!! I love using my experience as a Pro Domme to help determined women succeed at sex work. Despite the shame and stigma, sex work can be a very rewarding career. Let’s talk about how to make your career more rewarding, financially, as well as emotionally.

What if I’m too embarrassed to talk to you about my fetish when the time comes? Before we talk, you will fill out a sexual adventure mentoring application for me which will get us passed the hard part. I find that once people find themselves in a safe place to talk, they tend to open up.

If you aren’t quite ready to chat with me about your particular perversion, sign up for my mailing list and you receive a copy of my Sexual Adventure Questionnaire that helps begin and guide conversations around kinky desires. I promise to only email you when I have something fun and juicy to talk about! I also highly recommend my book “Kinky Sex Tips for Curious Girls” for people who are new to exploring kink. It’s part color book, part activity book, part answers to all the most common questions I get.

Yes please!