Over The Knee Spanking and Emotional Impact

On December 12th I will be teaching an over the knee spanking class at Sub Rosa. In my over 20 years as a professional dominatrix I have found that while spanking is one of my most common requests, the emotional needs behind spanking vary greatly from person to person. I’ll be talking about how to physically give a great spanking, but also how to dive deeper and meet those emotional needs as well. For example, does the spankee wish to feel loved, threatened or coorced? Are you spanking them because they are your play thing, and you can do what you like with them? Or are you doing it because they have been naughty and it’s for their own good. …

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Come Correct: How to Approach, Serve & Dazzle Dominant Femmes

Come Correct

Why is it some subs seem to get all the play, and you are sitting there watching and trying to figure out how to find a dominant femme to torment and tease you? Next week my lovely business partner, Viola Parker will be answering that question and I will be assisting. We will be looking at the inboxes of ourselves, as well as other dominant women so you can see what your competition is saying – and helping you figure out an introduction that will get a domme interested in playing with you. We will be discussing the emotional labor dominant women perform, and how you can hold up your end of that conversation so her interactions with you leave her …

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Kink For The Curious Class

An in person class for those who don’t know where to start, but who crave a little adventure. Kink for the Curious is where you come to get the answers to all the questions you were too afraid to ask – taught in an approachable manner with wit and style, puns and humor.

Sub Rosa Update! It’s nearly ready!

Sub Rosa In Progress

In the last month, Sub Rosa has gone from an empty loft space, to a saw dust covered, paint fume filled den of iniquity. It’s obviously got a ways to go, but I feel like we are in the hight of the mess, and now it’s about painting what we have built and organizing it into it’s delightfully devious nooks and crannies. Soon things will start slipping into their rightful places, a bondage corner, a medical exam nook, a cross-dressing area, an adult baby nursery. Soon after that, we will start offering classes, photography and coaching, among several other fun activities. I know I’ve talked on social media about all of this, but thought perhaps now would be a good …

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